- you're right — Casey, Thu Dec 26 15:56
- *smile* — jennifer, Fri Dec 27 19:20
- back at you — Casey, Sat Dec 28 19:34
- good for you! — jennifer, Sat Dec 28 21:59
- I'm the same way! — Casey, Sun Dec 29 10:54
- Here's my response — Casey, Sun Dec 29 11:03
- thanks — jennifer, Mon Dec 30 19:15
- Re: Here's my response — Gloria, Sun Dec 29 14:10
jennifer
be careful
Tue Dec 24 22:32:45 2002
kacee, sweetheart, be careful what you are doing.
believe me, i'm here for you, and i support you, but you will only end up feeling worse if you keep pushing jeff.
yes, it will make you feel better to hurt him, but only for about two minutes. it's sad that he can't be there for you, but you can't force him, and should try to just get on with your own life.
i know this is harsh sounding, but i did the same thing myself. i called the father so much, i called and hung up, i showed up on his door, i did whatever i could to make him feel the pain i was feeling, and it all amounted to nothing. he didn't come back to me, he wasn't hurt, he just wanted me gone.
it still hurts to this day, but i forced myself to focus on ME, because, as much as i hated to admit it, i was the only one with a problem. he got off scott free.
but i did't. i went on without him, and i know now that i am better off without him. he was a coward, and was selfish.
i am better off without him in my life.
anyway, i know that you have been depressed, and i guess i'm just afraid that his negative reactions will just worsen your condition.
get the closure you need, but think about yourself right now. take care of yourself.
happy holidays.
always,
jennifer
