- back at you — Casey, Sat Dec 28 19:34
- good for you! — jennifer, Sat Dec 28 21:59
- I'm the same way! — Casey, Sun Dec 29 10:54
- Here's my response — Casey, Sun Dec 29 11:03
- thanks — jennifer, Mon Dec 30 19:15
- Re: Here's my response — Gloria, Sun Dec 29 14:10
jennifer
*smile*
Fri Dec 27 19:20:16 2002
oh, kacee, i'm so happy to see that you understand what i said. but there is one thing i want to remind you of...
while you may always be the mother of jeff's first child, that was your child too.
remember your child, and remember that you will always be their mother. that is more important then jeff any day.
i know this sounds kind of odd, but i don't think of the father anymore. he wanted nothing to do with me or my child, so now everything is all mine... the pain, the thoughts, but also the memory of my child, as little as it may be.
and i owe it to my child to remember my baby, and keep him in my heart always, even if the father isn't around, or thinking of my child.
keep talking to your psychologist, and keep searching in yourself for some calm, or peace, or some closure (whichever suits your needs).
anyway, i'm going to stop preaching now.
*smile*
always,
jennifer
