- Re: Here's the mistake — Gloria, Fri Jan 17 12:59
- Re: Here's the mistake — jennifer, Thu Jan 9 19:45
- Re: Here's the mistake — Casey, Thu Jan 9 20:04
- Re: Here's the mistake — Gloria, Fri Jan 17 13:23
- hey — jennifer, Tue Jan 14 13:01
- Re: hey — Casey, Tue Jan 14 18:00
Casey
Here's the mistake
Thu Jan 9 09:16:30 2003
I called Jeff's boss/partner, and left a voice mail yesterday morning. I said that the motto of their station is "'family and friends, not an audience'; it's sad when you're only a family member or friend when you're not pregnant. One of your DJ's had a relationship with me, got me pregnant, and wanted me to have an abortion more for him than myself so he wouldn't get fired. It's sad when you say your station cares about people, but when you have nothing to do with them after the biggest sacrifice they've made to protect you, they don't give a sh** about you." I left my number, and never said my name. His partner called me back, and wanted to know the whole story, including my name, and how we had met. Well, once I told him who I was, he was suprised, because he had asked me out before, and then was in complete shock after learning the Jeff 'allegedly' got a woman pregnant. I told him that Jeff and I had dated, I had gotten pregnant, and then had an abortion. After which, when it was done, he didn't support me, then a few months later after no support, told me that he didn't want to, didn't know how, and didn't have to. Well, I was extremly mad, because according to Greg, I was 'up for legal action, because of all the serious allegations I have made against Jeff'. Plus, I voluntarily slept with Jeff, and voluntarily gotten pregnant! If my pregnancy was intented, then why would I have gotten an abortion? I told him that I had the paperwork from the clinic, e-mails and IM's that I had saved between Jeff and I, talking about the pregnancy, both pre- and post-abortion. Greg asked if I had pictures of us, and I said no. I said that I could describe his condo, his bedroom, his car, etc. But again, I could be up for legal action if I went public with this, and I surely wouldn't want my name dragged through the mud, would I? Well, of course not. But, he wanted to know what good would come from him knowing all of this. I said that as Jeff's closest friend, does he seem like the kind of person that would abandon someone who made such a sacrifice for him? Greg said he didn't know, and that Jeff never spoke of his personal life. Jeff had only spoken good things about me, which I don't believe for a second. I talked to the women at the clinic where I got my abortion, and they know that the father is from 93.9. So, they just think it's stupid what Greg's saying, and that I did nothing wrong. Personally, I may have gone over the line a tad, but I'm not going to take more time trying to call Jeff, leaving messages until I'm blue in the face, when I know he won't call back. I'm just beginning to lose it, and to make things sort of ironic, my best friend Jenifer is pregnant. Really, my psychologist is helping, and so's the anti-depressants, but still, I'm on the edge.
~Kacee
