Melanie
your feelings
Tue Jan 15 00:59:40 2002
Sara,
For most women, at some point in time it becomes easier. It still hurts sometimes, but it becomes bearable. You have suffered a loss.. a real one, and it takes sometime to grieve and work through that loss. Give yourself permission to do so. Coming here is a good first step.
You should know your feelings are quite common, and that you do not have to go through them alone.
Some women find it helpful to create a memorial of some sort when they are ready. Some create online memories while others plant something, donate to a charity, or put together a scrapbook or album of thoughts. A friend created a list of things that were helpful to her. I will ask permission to post them tomorrow.
Hang in there,
Melanie
