jennifer
*smile*
Sat Dec 28 21:50:33 2002
i'm glad to hear you are taking care of yourself. seeing a doctor is a good idea. it took me 5 months before i went to get myself checked.
as for how you are healing, you are very right that is a personal matter. no one can tell you what is best for you. the only advice that i think actually fits everyone is to be true to yourself.
as for hanging out with guys, go with your gut reaction. whether they are friends or someone special to you, it is up to you when anything happens, and also how you ar eto be comforted( as in hugs and touching).
as for telling your parents, that is your own decision, and i stand by you if that is how you feel. i haven't yet told my parents (i'm 21) and i doubt very much if i ever tell them. i do make sure though to talk to my younger sisters very honestly, because i don't want to have them go through what i've gone through.
anyway, i'm here for you.
always,
jennifer
