MommyAllTheTime
thanks, Jilly....
Sun Oct 8 12:12:59 2000
I think you're absolutely right. I'm sure everyone's triggers are a little different. When there is a debate, ESPECIALLY where there's woman who is pregnant and doesn't know if she wants an ab....then that's major trigger. It's hard enough to try to convey to someone what they are about to walk into, and all the pain that will follow, without coming across like a school principal and telling them how to live their own life. But I do feel a moral obligation to try to inform them of the aftermath or maybe that what they may have been told by someone else is a crock. LOL I think as humans we have do have some responsibility to each other. And I wish I would have gone into it with less ignorance. So it's something I feel pulled to do. But when the debates are combined with that...it's really hard for me. I guess on a board where there is any "form" of a debate at all... I need to learn to recognize that type of post and force myself to not respond. Like I said, I found out I still have a couple triggers too. Thanks for the understanding.
Peace,
MommyAllTheTime
